Relations

there is an african proverb

there is another proverb

 which is 

talking about our

interdependence

and our relations to each other

then i see proverbs like

and

but i am caught in between

i have been going quickly 

growing at a pace only halted by my own will and effort

but to step out side of myself there lies the problem 

as a feel many of the readers may also feel

that many want changes of varying degrees

and have heard the proverb be the change you want to see

and are like i see the change when i look in the mirror

and not to develop cases of narcissism i am not constantly looking in one

but i do not see the same change when i look elsewhere

and your efforts may be buffeted

and i have to say not to put all our eggs in one basket 

as you dont test the water with both feet

and i feel this is the position with many of us

and many of us forget what we were like in the forest

so let us check the sizes of our heads

and take grace from the mosquito

and remember the position  of

those being lead to roads