Escaping our childhood

Can we escape our childhoods
Are we just the spectrums of our childhoods
And if so can we escape it

If a people are people because of their culture and customs
Can people who do not tie into the traditional system be then not catergorically of the people

Just observing people
I am deducing
Not many variants from the conclusion of the guessed potentialities

And the leanings towards degrees of people
That many claim uniqueness
Others of a different degree would laugh at it
For all claims of uniqueness
Their couldnt be social norms
Or the ridiculous generalisation towards human nature
Adverts would be a harder business than currently
Or am I equating uniqueness to unpredictability
So perhaps uniqueness can be put into spheres of degrees
But can barely differential difference really be catalogued
Since uniqueness is meant to be distinct
For does doing a unique thing make you unique
I would surmise not
But we have diverted
For do we escape childhoods
This the time
We learn
Life skills
Etched upon us in our most impressionable time
For I am current watching a tv program called psych
About a guy with incredible powers of observation
and the regular people surmise as in an episode
Of sherlock that the person deducing could not achieve the outcome without being involved in the crime
Psych he pretends to be a psychic but an over the top one to exhibit or hide the truth
Wish brings up why being a psychic is easier for people to grasp than high functioning observational skills

Perhaps psychic allows the ordinary to not look at them selves as a matter
Of it being a talent or a skill endowed
Well as observational skills are one where anyone could of came to the answer if they looked
And ygat reflects on the person directly but not everyone wants to look at themselves

And psych we see is a person
Who his dad trained him in honing his skills
To the point it can be seen as harshness
Such as you walk in a room
And recalling what was seen as such as how many hats are in a room

And I think it was also one of the foundation bricks of magic
But psych switches between his old and young self
And why he has certain gifts and skills

For if you are wearing an orange shirt in a crowd of red shirts you can surmise that person is unique but when you see someone with a yellow shirt orange absorbs into red
And if you put a green hoodie
The yellow gets absorbed
And then you have someone topless you can get another parameter

But I have seen people who have come from simplistic background become complex
And complex backgrounds become simplistic
But there are more factors at play
But it comes to the argument nature vs nurture

For being an individual does not mean you are an individual
For batteries come in individual portions but are indistinguishable from each other and form the same function
Whereas batteries are different from pens but are not really different from their contemporaries

Conclusion we can escape but to what degree